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In Memory of
Harold "Barry" Haldenby
April 12th, 1950 - June 6th, 2021

Place of Death

His Residence - Lucknow, Ontario

Obituary

Barry Haldenby of Lucknow, passed away in his home surrounded by the love of his family on June 6, 2021. He was 71 years old. He was the beloved husband of Marie Haldenby for 50 years. Barry was born on April 12, 1950 in Wingham, Ontario to the late Harold & Madeleine Haldenby. Dear dad of Allyson & Mike Cowan, Jason & Kendra, Rob & Sherri, and an infant daughter who predeceased him. Proud grandpa of his 8 grandkids: Erin and Wes Massey, Maghan Cowan, Destinee Shepherd, Daija, Devin, and Delilah Haldenby, and Trent and Maddy Haldenby. Great-grandpa of Ethan and Elyssa Massey and Reo Cowan. Brother of Sheila (Bob) Nethercott of Forest and Geordie (Cathy) Haldenby of Sarnia, brother-in-law of Wayne (Judy) Brooks. Survived by many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his in-laws Omar & Dora Brooks.

Barry loved refurbishing old cars and boasted a total of fifty in his collection. His love for things to go did not stop there, as he enjoyed motorcycles and continued to work on his Dad's small engines. Summer fun included boating and fishing. His gun collection came in handy for the hunting season. Summer vacations in the north made many memories for both he and his family. Many a party saw him share his talent of music i.e. singing and playing his guitar.

He worked at Bruce Power for thirty years. At Otsbek Manor, he worked as the "handy man" for thirteen years. He went above and beyond to meet all of the residents' needs and was everyone's friend. He loved to spend time with his own family and grandchildren. Indeed, he was truly a very willing helper for family and friends and will be missed very much.

Due to Covid-19 restrictions, private arrangements have been made.

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Message from Anne & Mac MacInnes2021-07-09 17:11:54

dear Marie, Allyson, Jason, Rob & families. We were so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. You guys were such good neighbours back on Havelock street. We always looked forward to a visit.  How Lenard used to laugh at Robbie's escapades!  

Message from Janette Zabolotney ECKENSWILLER2021-06-30 19:37:26

Dear Marie   so sorry to hear about  Barry  Deepest sympathy               Janette and Ralph Zabolotney

Message from Suzanne And Bill Andrew2021-06-16 20:00:44

Dear Marie and family,

   We were very sorry to hear about your loss of Barry. Please accept our sincere condolences. You will have many treasured memories. Hugs. 

Message from Lisa Gamble2021-06-16 10:59:02

Marie & Family - deepest sympathy during this difficult loss.  Forever will the good times live on in your memories.  Lisa

Message from Lorene Casemore2021-06-13 19:59:47

Marie, Allison, Jason, Rob and families my thoughts and prayers are with you.  Hold tight to your memories and each other.  Hugs.

Message from Len and Wilma Clarke2021-06-13 16:32:07

Thinking of you at this sad time.  Hugs Marie.  Keep your great memories.

Message from Patricia Weir2021-06-13 07:47:29

Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Barry.  He was a kind and helpful person who will be greatly missed.  Thinking of his family and friends at this sad time.

In sympathy,

Pat and Aubrey Weir

 

Message from Lloyd &Laura Walker2021-06-10 16:54:12

I worked with Barry at Ontario Hydro for many years,great fellow to work with,RIP buddy

Message from Joanne & George Bushell2021-06-10 11:28:50

To Marie and all the Haldenby family:  Please accept our sincere sympathy in Barry's passing.  Treasure your memories.

George & Joanne (Crozier) Bushell

Message from Bill and Donna Moffat2021-06-10 10:06:21

Dear Marie and family.  We were sorry to hear of Barry's passing.  He will be missed. Treasure the memories.

Message from Grace, Steve, Sommer & Marisa Bender2021-06-09 16:42:31

Marie and family,

We are so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. May you find comfort and peace in the memories you hold close to your heart. Thinking of all of you during this difficult time.

 

Message from Doug and Nancy Aitchison 2021-06-09 13:16:28

Marie and family

Our deepest condolences to the family.   You will have wonderful memories of times together.   

Message from Deanna Reavie2021-06-09 13:10:17

My heartfelt sympathy Marie and family in the loss of Barry. May treasured memories sustain you during this difficult time. 

Message from Joanne & Rod McDonagh2021-06-09 11:05:49

Marie and Family;  Sorry to hear of Barry's passing.  Please accept our sympathies.  Great photo of Barry and a terrific write up.  Didn't realize he was a man of so many talents.  He will be sorrily missed.

Message from Kathy Gibson 2021-06-09 10:23:15

My heartfelt sympathy Marie.  My thoughts and prayers are with you  at this difficult time.  It’s so hard to lose your best friend and husband of so many years.     Kathy Gibson 

Message from Barry and Betty McDonagh 2021-06-09 09:48:23

Dear Marie and family. Our condolences and prayers go to you and yours. Hugs too everyone. 

Message from Ian and Kathy Hackett2021-06-09 08:31:19

Dear Marie and Family:  

Sorry to hear about Barry our deepest sympathies.  
He was a nice man and good neiighbor.  Hopefully there are no 

glass windows up there for golf balls to go through. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜€
 

Message from Jeana Dunlop2021-06-09 08:16:44

So sorry to hear of Barry's passing . He will be missed.

Thinking you all

Message from Steve and Joan Chamney2021-06-09 06:20:35

We are saddened to hear of Barry's passing. He was so good  to the folks at the apartments.. he will be missed so many.  Our sympathies to his family.

Message from Annette and Red Drennan2021-06-08 22:36:38

Marie and family  please accept our condolences for your loss.We are thinking of you all. 
annette and red drennan

Message from Lynn (Culbert) Oliver2021-06-08 22:25:45

My sympathy to you Marie and family. It is a very hard time to go through but the love of family will help you through this. 

Hugs, Lynn

Message from Mike and Val (Park) Bendig2021-06-08 21:22:13

Dear Marie and family:  so sorry to hear of Barry's passing; sincere condolences to you all - Mike and Val (Park) Bendig and family.

Message from Bob and Sandra McPherson2021-06-08 20:38:02

Marie and family. So sorry to hear of Barry's passing. We had many good times working togeather and every time we pass through Lucknow I think of you guys. Remember the good times. Bob and Sandra

Message from Jeff & Dayle Taylor2021-06-08 20:32:42

Marie, our sympathies to all your family on Barry's passing.  We have lots of memories of evenings together on Havelock Street.  

Message from Rose Hayes 2021-06-08 19:24:22

Marie and family my deepest sympathy to you all. Barry was such a nice man  .Jack and I always enjoyed the time we spent with the both of you . Pleas know you are in my prayers.

Rose Hayes

Message from Marybelle Cranston2021-06-08 19:19:43

To Marie and family. Remember the joyous moments and let them be the consolation you need on the dark days. Always talk about Barry with the love you all shared.

Message from Wayne & Laurie Bell2021-06-08 17:36:25

Marie: Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Barry was a lovely man...never complained, great laugh & sense of humour. Sending virtual hugs your way

Message from Marg Stanley2021-06-08 15:42:09

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through and start to recover from this double whammy

 

 

Message from Kim Elliott2021-06-08 15:26:31

Deepest sympathy on your loss Marie.

Message from Ilene Greer, Joanne and Steve Just2021-06-08 15:12:28

Marie and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.  Ilene, Joanne and Steve

Message from Jim & Ruth MacKenzie2021-06-08 14:34:04

so so sorry to hear this news!  Thinking of you Marie & family!  Big hugs to you all in the coming days!

Message from Barry and Betty McDonagh 2021-06-08 13:47:52

Dear Marie and family. Our condolences and prayers go to you and yours. Hugs too everyone. 

Message from Bryan and Vana Gammie2021-06-08 13:22:51

Dear Marie and family, Sincere sympathy on your loss, Thinking of you and the family. Cherish all those wonderful memories. Hugs to you all. 

Message from Art & Barb Breckles2021-06-08 11:13:58

We extend our Deepest Sympathy to Marie and all the family at this sad time. Barry was a wonderful man and will be missed by everyone. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs from Art & Barb & family.

 

Message from Donna & Rob Middelkamp 2021-06-08 10:22:34

Our Deepest Sympathy Marie & Family on the passing of Barry . He was kind person  . We want  you all to know we will be thinking of you all . Sending hugs to you all and a little bigger hug to you Marie .  

Message from Bob & June Gilchrist2021-06-08 09:53:53

We send our heartfelt sympathy to all of Barry's  family in his loss and know he will be truly missed. Thinking of you all. Bob & June

Message from Betty Stirling2021-06-08 08:39:32

Marie, Fred & I are sorry to learn of your husband's death.  Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Betty (Irvin) Stirling

Message from Lynne and Steve Mann2021-06-07 21:44:59

Marie and family, please accept our heartfelt sympathy in such a difficult loss for you all.

Sincerely, 

Lynne and Steve

Message from Harvey and Pat Livingston2021-06-07 20:59:28

Marie and family: sending our deepest condolences on the passing of Barry. 

Pat and Harvey

Message from Dinnie and Mary Anne MacDonald2021-06-07 20:40:40

Marie and family. Dinnie and i send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Cherish your memories of good times and they will see you through the dark times.

Message from Mark Becker2021-06-07 20:17:41

Marie & Family

My sincere condolences go out to you at this difficult time.

Message from Barbara Johnston2021-06-07 20:06:19

Dear Marie and Family

Thinking of you, sending ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

Message from Kathy Dickson 2021-06-07 20:01:58

We were so sad to hear of Barry's passing. I am so glad that I got to spend some time with him in the last few weeks. He was one of a kind and family gatherings will never be the same. I will never hear The Macarena without thinking of Barry and his towel! Our thoughts and love are with you all. Kathy and Jim

Message from Roy and Nancy Gardner2021-06-07 17:27:36

Our deepest sympathies to Marie and the Haldenby family. 

Message from Joan and John pollard2021-06-07 14:31:53

Our deepest sympathy Marie and family,,,so very sorry to hear of Barry's passing,,,he's been the love of your life for so many years,,,...he will be truly missed,,,,always such a nice guy,,,my thoughts are with you all. 

Message from Bill Clubb2021-06-07 14:11:07

To all of Barry's Family, sending my condolences. I enjoyed some good comraderie with Barry both at work and socially. A man with conviction, worked hard, played hard and he could always be counted on for a voice of reason, commitment to cause and a genuinely upfront personality..

Message from Betsy Henderson2021-06-07 12:12:44

Dear Marie and family and Sheila-Am so sorry to hear about Barry. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hugs. Betsy