In Memory of
Paul Wainwright
June 7th, 1959 - July 12th, 2020

Place of Death

South Bruce Grey Health Centre, Kincardine

Obituary

Paul Wainwright of Point Clark and formerly of Lucknow passed away suddenly on July 12, 2020 at the Kincardine Hospital at the age of 61. He was the beloved husband of Julie Ann (Davies) for nearly 42 years. Paul, Julie and their son Christopher moved to Holyrood in 1989. They spent many years in the Lucknow arena freezing their butts off cheering our Lucknow Minor Hockey Team on too many a victory and making great friends along the way. To those who knew him best he was a man with a grumpy side but had a heart the size of a mountain. Proud and ever-loving father to his son Chris who will miss him dearly. He will be missed by Chris’s wife Tracy of Kincardine and their sons Carson and Holden Stevenson. Paul was born on June 7, 1959 in Liverpool, England to his late parents Margaret (Bannon) and William Wainwright. Paul is survived by his brothers David (Jean), Neil (Kim), and sisters Janet (Brian) Sharkey and Lynne (Paul) Lonergan and his nieces and nephews all of Australia. Son in law of Beryl Davies. Brother in law of Jacqui and Euchre partner (Ivan) Poirier and uncle of Bekki Poirier. A private celebration of Paul's life will take place at a later date.

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Message from marketka kubicek2020-07-22 10:51:54

My heart goes out to Julie, Chris, Tracy, Carson, Holden and family.  I have been fortunate enough to share many years of friendship with  Paul and Julie with lots of wonderful memories.   Paul was always up for a good banter with a great sense of humour and always willing to help someone.   The way Paul talked about Julie and Chris it was obvious how much he loved them and was very proud of them.   He will be deely missed and fondly remembered.

 

Message from Sheila Dawson2020-07-20 11:56:06

To Paul's famiily,

  What a shock to read about Paul's death. My mother-in-law, Marcia Dawson, who lived in the Sepoy apartments in Lucknow until shortly before her death, had nothing but good to say about Paul as caretaker of the building. She always said that if she needed something tended to in her apartment, that he was there in a flash to help her. He also went above and beyond the call of duty when my sister-in-law and I had to clean out her apartment when she could no longer stay there. He also served as a pallbearer at her funeral, which he said was an honour to do. May you be comforted by the good memories and the love of family and friends at this time.

Sheila Dawson

Message from Christie Jedemann2020-07-20 09:58:41

To all of Paul's family,

I am so beyond sorry to hear of Paul's death. As County of Bruce employees are spread out at various offices, I didn't have the chance to see Paul often, but when I did, his quick wit and sharp sense of humour never went unappreciated. He clearly was a gem and no doubt will be missed beyond measure by all of you. 

Message from Sean Nurton and Family2020-07-17 06:49:25

Chris and Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Please accept our condolences and may all your great memories help ease the pain.

Message from Greg Begley2020-07-16 21:09:43

Julie, my heart goes out to you Christopher, Tracy and all your family.I am blessed that Paul came into my life and I was able to call him my friend. Paul was one of the few truly “Good Guys” in life. The memories of all our good times together and landing the shark will not be forgotten.

You will be missed my friend!

Message from Steve and Lynne Mann2020-07-16 18:47:26

Julie, Chris, Tracy, Carson and Holden, 

Paul changed the oil in my car at his shop in Lucknow many times. And he loved it when I gave him as hard a time as he gave me. But he always did it with that smile.   

Please accept our sympathy in your huge loss,

Lynne and Steve

Message from Brad Humphrey2020-07-16 15:54:17

Very sorry to hear about Paul ... always enjoyed meeting him in the arenas and out around town. Could always count on a witty conversation and he kept everyone on their toes. He will be missed.

Message from Dave Henderson2020-07-16 11:36:46

JW and family,

please accept my deepest sympatheis at this time of need. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

DH

Message from Tania Dickson2020-07-16 11:29:13

To Paul's family,

I was so sad to hear the news of Paul's passing. He was a great colleague, always providing a sarcastic comment and a good laugh. He also cared deeply about the people he worked with. I will certainly miss him and can't begin to imagine the hole he has left. I send my sincere condolences and hope your beautiful memories will soon outweigh your saddness.  

Message from Steve Quon2020-07-16 10:56:17

So sorry for your loss.  My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Message from ES Fox Team 2020-07-16 10:44:04

We are all sorry to hear about the sudden passing of Paul.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you Julie, your family and friends. 

Message from Jim and Christina Cranston 2020-07-16 05:31:40

So very sorry for your loss, Paul was a great guy and will be missed by all who new him

Message from Wayne & Lin Pringle2020-07-16 01:36:26

Dear Julie, it was a shock to hear this, Im so sorry you are going through this................Paul left us too early.

Your in our thoughts

Message from Lynne Lonergan2020-07-16 00:01:23

To Julie Christopher Tracey and Family

Why oh why

thinking of you all in these difficult times.Such a shock 

"Our Paul" left us too soon,Fly high brother you will always be in our hearts xxx

Lynne Paul Rebecca Stacey Shaun

Message from Sharon Petteplace2020-07-15 22:40:56

Julie, Chris & family our hearts and thoughts are with you all at this sad time in your lives. We would not have met if it hadn't been for those cold areas. Good memories for sure.

 

Brad & Sharon Petteplace

Message from Lori Weech2020-07-15 14:49:10

Julie, Chris, Tracey, Holden & Carson

Kevin and I are so very sorry to hear of Paul's passing.  Our hearts are broken.  Paul was such a wonderful person, always there to help in anyway he can and always making us laugh.  Sending you all love and hugs and know you are in our thoughts...

love you guys

Kevin & Lori  

Message from Cheryl Sajkowski2020-07-15 13:00:36

Julie, Chris, Tracy & Family....my deepest sympathiesl...you're in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

 

Message from Cheryl Sajkowski2020-07-15 13:00:31

Julie, Chris, Tracy & Family....my deepest sympathiesl...you're in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

 

Message from Suzanne and Bill Andrew2020-07-15 12:15:20

We are so sad to hear about your sudden loss of Paul. Julie, Chris, Tracy, and all his family and friends, we send our sincere condolences.

Message from Lee-Ann 2020-07-15 10:42:59

Julie, Chris and family, I am so sorry for your loss, I hope your memories bring you some comfort during this difficult time. Paul will be missed, he humour and laugh brightened many days.

Message from Donna & George Adams2020-07-15 10:09:10

Dear Julie, Chris & Tracy:  Our deepest condolences in the sudden loss of your wonderful Paul.  We wish you peace to bring comfort; courage to face the days ahead; and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.  Hugs to you all.

Message from Ruth Edgcumbe2020-07-15 09:26:31

My condolences to Paul's family and friends.  I enjoyed being a co-member on a committee with Paul and we saw his sense of humour and caring attitude.  

Message from Doug and Nancy Aitchison2020-07-15 08:25:36

Sorry to hear of Paul's sudden passing.   He will be missed.

Message from Danielle2020-07-15 00:26:37

Deeply sorry for the loss of Paul an extreme heartbreak for you guys in the days ahead take comfort in all the lasting memories and understand that we feel your heaviness in ways. Paul brought humor to the world and this world needed a whole lot of that  you guys will surely miss him what a great guy  stay strong thinking of you 

Message from Dorothy and Eve Tidd2020-07-14 20:21:05

Incredibly sad to hear of Paul's sudden passing. We are going to miss him pulling up in front of the building every morning (still expecting it). We've only lived here a year but he made us laugh many times and he definitely loved to tease! Our hearts go out to his wife, son, family, and friends. 

 

Message from Carolyn and Doug Dentinger2020-07-14 18:46:28

We were deeply saddened to hear of Paul's sudden passing. He had a big heart and enjoyed life. When you were with him, he was always using his quick wit to make people laugh. He seemed to have nicknames for many friends. If you needed help with something he was there to lend a helping hand.
Julie, Christopher and Tracy during this difficult time of unbelievably grief may the memories and stories shared of Paul bring you some comfort. 

Sending our love,

Carolyn (Blondie) and Doug

Message from Lou Morris2020-07-14 09:55:44

I am deeply sadened by Paul's sudden passing. Paul and I became good friends through his work at the County of Bruce. I will miss him so much. This was a man who would put anything he had going,  on  hold to help you out. Always had a great story was a good listener and was never judgemntal a great guy.

Julie, Chris if you need anything please call if I can help out you have my number.god bless.

Message from Erin Begley2020-07-14 09:42:10

My dearest "dahling" Julie - my heart, simply put, is broken as I feel all of your sadness and heartache for the loss of Paul.  I am so, so very sorry Chris & Tracy, Carson & Holden, all of Paul's Aussie family, and Beryl, Jac & Ivan & Bekki.  Paul's loss has left a huge hole in the hearts of everyone who knew him.  His personality was as big & as bold as they come yet he was the biggest mush bag who would absolutely do anything for you...but not without letting a sarcastic and insulting remark seep out of his big "Pauly" grin .  I will cherish all of our vacations & adventures together, our amazing dinner parties and Paul just being Paul.  Now Paul & Rich and all the other angels will have to guide us so we can get through these days ahead.  RIP my friend - our hearts ache and we will miss you terribly.  Surrounding you all with love, light & enormous hugs.    XOXOXO  Erin

Message from Carol Phillips2020-07-14 06:11:36

I am deeply saddened to read of Paul's passing and my heart goes out to Julie, Chris and family. Paul was a one of kind, some kind of wonderful guy and the years I spent as his neighbouor across the road were some of the best. I hope with all my heart that you find some comfort in the companionship of those around and that there will be story tellers all around for your little ones, so they will always know who Paul was. 

Message from David and jean Wainwright 2020-07-14 01:15:15

To Julie Chris Tracy Holden & Carson

So sorry to hear of the loss of my beautiful brother Paul and your adoring husband. I cannot put in words what to say I know we are miles away but you are always in our hearts and thoughts  hopefully he has found my mum and got his inheritance that he always teased her about.
 fly high my brother in o ur mums arms until  we meet again.

Our love always Dave & Jean 🙏❤️🙏❤️ 

Message from Wendy Hall2020-07-14 00:30:19

I am so sorry for your loss

Message from Sylvia Daisley2020-07-14 00:15:00

Dear Julie

Sending you my deepest condolences. I remember Paul as such a lovely man, with such a wonderful sense of humour.

My heart goes out to you at this very sad time, I wish I could give you more words of comfort, but words are never enough.

Sending you all my love

Sylvia 💞

Message from Matt Daigle2020-07-13 22:46:13

So many great memories of Paul.

I Was extremely sad to hear of his passing but I'll always remember him fondly. Paul may not have shared the same last name as us Donnellys but he was certainly a part of the family. 

My condolences to Julie, and Chris and all other family members.

We'll miss you Paul. 
 

 

Message from Lloyd and Irene Holdbrook2020-07-13 21:41:42

Our place will never be the same without Paul.  Our sincerest condolences.  

Your friends,

The Holdbrooks

Message from Neil & Kim Wainwright2020-07-13 21:35:10

Julie, Chris, Tracy, Holden & Carson,

Please accept our deepest condolences, no words can describe the sorrow and pain that we are all feeling, are thoughts are with you all.

Such a beautiful caring person and I have been truly blessed to have him as a brother. He will always be in our hearts and we know he will be watching over his family and friends.

Fly high big brother and be very proud of what you achieved.

All our love Neil, Kim, Tia, Zoe & Jaime xxx

 

Message from Janet sharkey2020-07-13 21:12:48

Rip my beautiful brother you were the best

Julie. Chris Tracey sending you all our love

Janet and Brian  (broken hearted) xxx

Message from Carmen Attard 2020-07-13 21:09:16

Dear Julie, There are no words to express the sadness I felt when i was told of your husband  Paul 's passing. I can' t imagine how you feel. May you find sone kind of consolation in these sad times. My thoughts and prayers are with you. 💕 Xxxx

Message from Linda and Alex Lourenssen2020-07-13 20:44:17

Dear Julie, Chris, Tracy and Family, we are so sorry to hear of Paul's sudden passing.  We have such good memories of the times we got to spend with him.  If there is anything we can do please reach out to us.  Big hugs to you all and again our deepest sympathy to you and your Family.  Linda and Alex Lourenssen xxoo

Message from Heather Beaton2020-07-13 20:09:14

 

I’m so grateful for all the time I was privileged to spend with Paul. He was a man like no other. He loved to tease people and give you a hard time, but in the next breath drop anything to help you out. He may have had a rough and tough exterior but he had the biggest heart of anyone I know. 

I can honestly say the love story between Paul and Julie is my favourite - it could easily be made into a Hollywood film. To call you two soul mates would be an understatement. And over the decades the love he had for her never faded.

I will forever cherish the nights playing Dominos, holidays spent together, dinner parties, and all the sarcastic comments followed by a big smile and your infectious laugh.

You’ll never know the hole that is left in our hearts without you here. Love, “Nurse Ratched”